The Drown Family

Dessa

Though Dessa has graduated from the NICU, she remains in the care of her doctors. Her parents hope they will be able to return home with her soon.

When baby Dessa was born prematurely at just six months gestation and needed to be airlifted to a hospital nearly an hour away after doctors discovered a bowel obstruction, her parents quickly arranged childcare for their 4-year-old son and drove to be by her side. They did not think about where they would stay. Thanks to the RMHC programs near the hospital, they have been able to stay close to Dessa throughout every step of her treatment.

On the referral of the social worker at the hospital, Denise and her husband, Dustin, were able to get a room at the Ronald McDonald House® just a block away from Dessa's bedside. Dessa's older brother, Drey, was even able to join them. Because Drey had been an only child for the past four years, his parents knew he needed to be with them during this time.

The House has proved to be a haven for them, as both Denise and Dustin have been out of work as a result of the pandemic. Having their accommodations and meals taken care of has allowed them to focus on the health and well-being of both of their children rather than food and lodging expenses.

They have also found a community of support among the other families staying at the House as they navigate the difficult situation in the midst of a pandemic. "Having a baby far from home has been difficult, but the community atmosphere (at the House) has been wonderful, even with social distancing and lots of extra precautions, and we are enjoying helping other families and getting each other through this time," explains Denise.

The Drown family has been staying at their local Ronald McDonald House for three months (and counting) and are hopeful that Dessa gets strong enough so they will be able to return home soon.

In the meantime, Denise and Dustin find themselves incredibly grateful for the staff and volunteers, who have found ways to continue to make their family a priority while still keeping everyone safe.

Your support of RMHC helps us continue to support all our local Chapters around the world as they keep millions of families like the Drowns together when their child needs them most. Contact Lacee O’Brien at lacee.obrien@us.mcd.com or 630-623-7048 to learn more about ways you can make a gift to RMHC.

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